Chauvinist cops
December 15th, 2008 by tarayapThe Daily Guardian
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posted Dec. 11, 2008 (Thursday)
Contemplations
Tara Yap
Chauvinist cops
OVER the weekend, news broke out that a contractual employee of the Iloilo City Hall filed a sexual harassment complaint against Sr. Insp. Virgilio Buena, a senior police officer of the Iloilo City Police Office (ICPO).
The complainant alleged that Sr. Insp. Buena insinuated sexual gestures and indecent proposals. She also claimed that Sr. Insp. Buena offered to send her to nursing school and told her to break off her relationship with her boyfriend to be with him.
For the sake of argument, let’s say the accusation can either be solid or mere hearsay.
However, there is no denying that a number of male chauvinist police officers, regardless of rank, exist both in the city and province of Iloilo.
A mere police officer 1 (PO1) can be as malicious as a high ranking officer if we talk of sexual predators.
Take for instance a PO1 at Police Precinct 3, the one in Jaro district. Even his supposedly upright background—being a son of a math professor at the only Baptist university in Iloilo City and being a Baptist himself—never stopped him from soliciting sex by masquerading as a man looking for a serious girlfriend or a wife.
Suffice to say, these male chauvinist police officers believe they can always use their gun and badge to easily get away with their acts of enticing women for carnal satisfactions.
More than that, these male chauvinist police officers depend on the very fact that their fellow cops will protect them and will even tolerate their malicious acts. After all, screwing women for their own satisfactions is a norm among their circles.
Ano, triping lang gid nila mang bastos babaye tungod pulis sila?
I am sure there are many more female victims of these male chauvinist police officers, but they have not mustered enough strength to report the incident or confront the perpetrators themselves.
Many of these women fear men who can always use guns to silence them or retaliate. Others are afraid of being subjected to psychological warfare wherein these male chauvinist police officers make them, “the victim”, look like “the perpetrator” as vicious lies start to spread among the police force. More sadly, some women consider a legal move as a headache—of time, of money, of sanity.
Notwithstanding legal procedures, the acts of these male chauvinist police officers are tantamount to conduct unbecoming of an officer and a gentleman.
More significantly, police officers have the duty to protect and serve. Whatever happened to service, honor and justice when these male chauvinist police officers use the very privilege of their uniforms to disrespect and insult women?
The sexual harassment raps against Sr. Insp. Buena should be a wake up call to the Women’s and Children Protection Desk (WCPD) of the ICPO, the ICPO itself, and the Police Regional Office (PRO-6).
Aside from a full blown investigation, drastic measures ought to be taken to minimize, if not prevent, male chauvinist police officers from performing sexual innuendos.
For a start, the police force ought to undergo Gender Sensitivity Training (GST).
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In the spirit of yesterday’s celebration of Human Rights Day, let me leave you with what my friend Kristine “Ting” Sanico told a bunch of college kids and yuppies at Rock Ed Iloilo’s pre-Human Rights Day gig at Shel Syd Sunday night:
At war, men fight for their country. As soldiers, they believe it is their right to do so. They kill the enemy for glory, for pride, for honor. What we don’t see are the pictures of them raping women and children. Who gave them the right?
At home, their 8-5 jobs sustain the daily needs of the family. As a father and a husband, they believe it is their right to do so. One night, the wife can’t keep the baby quiet. Or maybe, the wife is too tired to make love. The husband gets frustrated and angry. He slaps her. He punches her. He kicks her. Who gave him the right?
You want the latest sex scandal? So, you download it from your friends. After all, it is your mobile phone. You believe it’s your right. You want everybody else in class, your workplace, your community to see it. Nothing’s wrong with it. You don’t know the girl, anyway. Who gave you the right?
Please give us our rights too.
We have the right to live, dream, bitch, scream, vote, create, whine, fight, complain, enjoy, play, laugh, love.
As a woman, you have all the right.
Your number one right is to know all your rights.